covid days of summer

It’s August! I think. Did you just look at the calendar to confirm what day and month it is?

The days, weeks and months since mid March have blurred together and we have missed many of the events and milestones that we love about spring and summer — fairs, concerts, graduations, family reunions, summer jobs, baseball, summer olympics, eating in restaurants, going out with friends, traveling. You get the idea.

Every day and everywhere we turn — TV, radio, newspapers, magazines, social media, email — we are inundated with news about the coronavirus. No matter your opinion on the subject, the global pandemic has impacted everything about your life.

I came across this quote by Paulo Coelho, Brazilian lyricist and novelist, best known for his novel The Alchemist. “When each day is the same as the next, it’s because people fail to recognize the good things that happen in their lives every day that the sun rises.”

So I challenge you to find a good thing in every day of this pandemic. Simple, small things that we take for granted remind us that we are alive, we are resilient, we are healthy, we are loved.

I can actually think of one silver lining in all of this. If I had been in Alaska this summer as planned I would not have been able to spend time with one of my oldest (even though she was younger than me!) and dearest friends. She had survived breast cancer in 2014 but early last year it came back with a vengeance. I visited her several times a week, we texted and talked on the phone. I watched the Super Bowl at her house, we watched lots of HGTV, I saw her face light up when her 18-month-old granddaughter came to visit. My friend called me one morning saying she felt pretty good and invited me to go shopping with her and her husband. For a couple of hours, life felt almost normal but I knew she was putting on a brave face. Two weeks later she would be gone. It would have been devastating to miss her memorial service and the opportunity to celebrate her life. Miss you, my friend!

When I saw this quote I realized that my friend lived her life this way. A good lesson for us all, even during these challenging times.

 “No matter how you feel today, get up, dress up and show up.” Paulo Coelho

One. Good. Thing.
Feeding a stray cat. Remembering a dear friend. Growing flowers from seeds. A fun surprise gift from my sister. Finding a new favorite beverage. New shoes and painted toes.

A few favorite photos from July 2020.
Bridge over the Rio Grande. Cloudy skies. Moo. Cow carcass. Eye on the water.

Above: Beautiful views from the Garfield Cemetery.

Below: Hueco Tanks State Park. Picnic shelter. Desert highway.

Goats at Runyan Ranches.

covid 19 summer…continued

What a difference a year makes! July 4, 2019, I was enjoying a beautiful Alaska summer. In fact, it was HOT and temperatures reached 90 degrees, breaking records in the Anchorage area. I spent the holiday at one of the Princess lodges enjoying the beautiful scenery and taking in the parade of decorated motorcoaches and golf carts with lodge employees throwing candy to spectators. No fireworks since sunset was around 11:30 pm. Life was good.

July 4, 2020 looks very different. Holiday concerts, events, parades and fireworks have been canceled as covid-19 continues to spread and people are still being diagnosed. Sadly, all we have come to love about long, hot, sunny summer days — beaches, concerts, fairs, picnics, camping, vacation — has changed. We have emerged from weeks of self-quarantine to venture into our “new normal” — Masks are required in public places, restaurants operate at 50% or less capacity, stores limit the number of customers who enter and place limits on some items we buy. City parks are closed, America’s favorite pastime — baseball — still hasn’t started.

This truly has been a summer, and year, like no other. A global health crisis, millions of jobs lost, weeks of self-quarantine, protests and violence, killer hornets, a “Godzilla” dust cloud, travel restrictions, a huge political divide….

Experts say it’s not what happens to you but how you react to it. When you think about it, challenging times often bring change and creativity. With today’s technology many people can still work; we can stay in touch with family and friends; we can get instant access to news; just about anything we need can be ordered online and delivered to our home. We are all learning our “new normal” as we wear our masks and practice social distancing.

Use this holiday weekend to reach out to friends and loved ones by video chat, share your thoughts about what’s going on in the world; if you don’t agree, listen to their side; do your research and get the facts – things can be less scary when you understand them better; remember that a mask and social distance help save lives; set small goals and give yourself something to look forward to; take a walk, read a book; make a donation to a food bank; help a neighbor; watch a patriotic movie. Remember what you can do rather than what you can’t do right now.

We will get through this! Leave a comment and let me know how you are spending the holiday weekend.

Here are a few signs of the times that I found around town today…

a mountain pilgrimage

December 10-12, 2019 marks the 109th year of The Tortugas Pueblo Our Lady of Guadalupe Fiesta. The religious fiesta celebrates the apparitions of Our Lady to the Indian San Juan Diego and is a time for thanksgiving and worship for many. December 11th is also the traditional date for the annual pilgrimage to Tortugas Mountain, known to locals as “A” Mountain. This is the second year that I have participated in the pilgrimage. As I hiked the steep climb my thoughts wandered to family members I have lost and friends and family members facing challenges. At the top of the mountain priests heard confessions before the Mass led by Las Cruces Bishop Emeritus Ricardo Ramirez. It was a day filled with reflection of the past and hopes for the future. At the end of the Mass, the Bishop blessed the yucca stalks which people used to construct quiotes, or walking sticks, which they carried down the mountain. A tradition steeped in history, I was grateful to participate.